I Was In Prison… Now I'm A Pastor

life-sentenceMany of you who are new to BigIsTheNewSmall may not know my story.  I spent about thirteen years in the prison system; that’s right horrible food, 8×10 cells, built up anger, razor wire….  I was an Officer, then a Counselor and finally a Warden.  This week, I am going to share some lessons that I learned while being in the prison system all of those years; some may be more graphic than others. 

SIMILARITIES BETWEEN BEING A WARDEN AND BEING A PASTOR

  • I’ve found the most effective strategy for leading people, is to “Be about the people!” (Genuinely care; take care of inmates or church members).
  • The method in which you lead people, can cause them to become a great asset or pain in the asset (many times the inmates were my greatest asset as a leader, the same philosphy applies to church members).
  • In corrections and ministry, individuals are led by specific rules, identified culture and organized structure. (Do’s & don’ts).
  • Inmates and church members act differently around the Warden and the Pastor (People in general talk different and act different around Pastors).
  • Just as we Got Rid of the word Church Member and changed it to Partners; there was a time in private corrections at lower-level security facilities when we changed from using the word Inmate, to using the word Client. (Both make a difference in the overall mindset).
  • Ultimately a Warden and a Pastor lead a venue where people can be confronted, held accountable, developed, challenged…. and leave personal chaos behind; in order for their lives to be truly CHANGED!

Don’t Judge, instead use Good Judgment: Bring-in, Build-up, Train & Send-out.

Any analogies come to mind with your job and The Church?  Share any other thoughts or perspectives! 

  • http://www.visiontobecca.blogspot.com wpusey

    That’s interesting that you brought up your connection with the prison system.

    I have 16 inmates that pray for me…
    http://tinyurl.com/d9zjde

  • http://www.scottrodgers.tv Scott Rodgers

    Great stuff. To ‘be about the people’ changes everything; our approach, processes, conversations, etc. As a pastor, I need to remind myself often that the people aren’t here for the church but the church is here for the people. That’s a significant shift in mindset. Instead of, ‘What can this person do for me/the church’, we think, ‘What is God doing in this person and how can I help them embrace that journey?’.

    Thanks for the reminder.

  • http://blackwomenblowthetrumpet.blogspot.com BlackWomenBlowTheTrumpet

    Hi there,

    This is an interesting post!

    I think that the change from “member” to “partner” is needed. It alters the thought process of people who think that the church is a social club for Christians.

    The elimination of the word “inmate” is something I still wrestle with. I think that criminals need to understand that they are NOT “clients” in the sense of those who are there to be served. They are offenders who are being punished.

    Peace, blessings and DUNAMIS!
    Lisa

  • nickhoss

    Great post, Scott! This is one of the best I think you written; lots of application here.

    Keep up the real work! #FistBump

  • http://synapticlight.com Phillip Gibb

    wow
    you had me at “I spent about thirteen years in the prison system”
    I thought u were a prisoner to start off with, but fortunately I read on ;-)

    fully agree with you,
    but not sure I like the fact that Church is comparable to Prison :-O well I have there is no pre-conceived mindset that any of my fellow ‘membere’/'inmates’/'partners’ have

    Phill
    [twitter: http://twitter.com/phillipgibb ]
    [blog: http://synapticlight.com/ ]

  • http://preachersstudyblog.com jbevans

    Thanks for a fine article. I know a successful minister who spent some time in the federal system as a client! His time seemed to focus him and give him the chance to sharpen his spiritual skills while ministering to others behind the walls. In his case, he came out much better.

  • http://duhdunks.blogspot.com megger213

    So, I am a nurse and when I go to work and think I have x y and z to get done in a specified amount of time the day is longer and the patient does not get better! When I go into work with the attitude of service the patient can feel the love and they progress towards better health, plus my day just flies by! When our attitude is to serve those around us so much more positive things are accomplished!

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