9 Ways To Stop Trying So Hard

stop-tryingMost of us grow up being taught that we need to “Try Harder” and that phrase ‘Try Harder” becomes part of our “Work Hard, Try Harder and Get er’ Done” value system.  I would argue that many times people need to Stop Trying So Hard.  Below are 9 Ways To Stop Trying So Hard:

  1. Stop trying so hard to let everyone know that your the leader… be the leader.
  2. Stop trying so hard to show people how much you know… be knowledgeable.
  3. Stop trying so hard to let your wife know that you’re in charge… be in charge.
  4. Stop trying so hard to keep up with the Jones’… be the Jones’ (it’s not about the stuff).
  5. Stop trying so hard to do the church thing… develop a relationship with Christ.
  6. Stop trying so hard to show your children that your a good parent… be a great parent.
  7. Stop trying so hard to find Mr./Mrs. Right… be Mr./Mrs. Right.
  8. Stop trying so hard to try so hard!
  9. Stop trying so hard to fit in… stand out.

We need to stop trying so hard to fit in, and embrace the fact that God has made each and every one of us to stand out.  Stop trying so hard to stand in… Go Stand Out!

Share Your Thoughts, Experiences & Additions to “Stop Trying So Hard!”

  • http://iChilly.com iChilly

    I love this post, Scott! I’m going to put a link to this on my post at iChilly today. Have a great Monday!

    Here’s one:
    Stop trying so hard to pat yourself on the back … just fist-bump God!

  • http://www.andykirk.tv Andy Kirk

    its all about the list! – AK

  • Lunasea2

    Great list – I love it! Thanks, Scott…fist-bump.

    One of mine:

    Hoping for a great day? Make it happen!

  • http://jaredbowie.blogspot.com Jared B

    I love this stuff! This is great! Thanks Scott! God bless!

  • http://reelartsy.blogspot.com Karen

    Well said! It reminds me of the line from one of my favorite movies What A Girl Wants. “Why do you try so hard to fit in when you were born to stand out?”

  • http://www.kennysung.com kenny

    hahahaha… you’re right!

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