10 Signs It May Be Time To Move On

move-onOften times people are assessing their jobs, roles, callings… by asking themselves the following question over and over: “Should I stay or should I go, should I stay or should I go…?”  Here are 10 Signs It May Be Time To Move On:

  1. You get an upset stomach every morning on your way to work.
  2. At-least once a week you think the following thoughts “If so and so does (_blank__) again today I’m going to quit.”
  3. You’ve asked God for signs that it’s time to move on and he has spoken to you through people, places, circumstances, His Word… you’ve heard its time to move on from God in every way besides hearing his audible voice.
  4. You can’t find anyone within a square mile radius of your job that you like, trust or believe in.
  5. Your boss has said to you “It may be time for you to move on!”
  6. You are 100% certain that you could have a bigger impact, be happier, put your family in a better situation… by moving on and the only thing that’s holding you back is fear.
  7. You tell yourself, your spouse and your friends on a regular basis that it’s time to move on and they agree.
  8. When an American Idol Contestant is sent home; you begin envision the greener pastures that are on the other side of them be kicked off.  You then draw parallels to yourself being in the Top 10 and imagine how being kicked out of your workplace will be better for you.
  9. Every time your boss calls you in his office or on the phone; you immediately start wondering what you did wrong or think they’re going to act like Donald Trump and say “You’re Fired!”
  10. You’ve read through the 9 signs above and said to yourself “That’s the confirmation that I needed.”

Life brings us many seasons and we have to be prepared for each and every one of them.  There is always a time to stay and a time to Go.  Many people are absolutely supposed to stay exactly where they are; however there is a percent who should definitely Go. 

Whatever decision you make, don’t merely make it on emotions alone; but rather give yourself and your family opportunity to evaluate legitimate considerations.  Don’t be the miserable person sitting around saying “Coulda, Shoulda, Woulda but never Dida!” Shh, be quiet & listen to God’s Whispers.

Share your stories, perspective & thoughts?  What are other signs that it may be time to move on?

  • http://murphy24p.wordpress.com Murphy24p

    As difficult as moving on may seem, do it! I wrestled with several things on this list for the better part of 4 months at my last job, and I thought I was going to lose my mind! Pray hard, seek good counsel, but move on… you are not doing yourself or the organization any favors by holding out.

    Great list , Scott. I hope this is the encouragement that some people need to take that most necessary step.

  • http://www.twitter.com/marcmillan Marc Millan

    These are the obvious ones here, one thing is clear,
    when you lose excitement, passion, when your
    conversation turns negative about your leaders and
    organization, pack up and go.
    Here’s another tip: Take the high road, leave
    with class and grace, don’t rip anyone on your way out,
    don’t name people, facts are facts but handle things
    with class and integrity, God takes care of his Children!

  • http://www.ronedmondson.com Ron Edmondson

    I agree. The hardest thing sometimes is making the final decision, although most of the time the handwriting has been “on the wall” months prior. I wrote a similar post dealing more with the fit within the organization:

    http://www.ronedmondson.com/2008/10/8-ways-to-know-it%E2%80%99s-time-to-quit.html

    Good stuff as always.
    Ron

  • http://www.michellegeorge.net Michelle George

    I love this post…i saw it on Swerve a while back and the timing was absolutely God-ordained!

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