What's My Name? (3 of 3)
NAME CALLING
Name Calling is one of those social weapons that we all pull out of our arsenal from time to time. We can trace name calling all the way back to pre grade school. Prior to grade school the name calling weaponry includes the subtle names, such as: chubby, goofy, skinny, slow….. Once we are in grade school the names become more reflective of perceived social status: cool, athlete, smart, LD, fast, slow, geek, nerd, looser, teachers pet…. When High School hits the name calling turns into some more serious WMD’s that carry throughout adulthood. Just think about your own life and the name calling that you are engaged in on a daily basis. I am guilty of minor and sometimes even more serious name calling on a regular basis. For instance, I am watching the news this week and they were talking about the arrest of our favorite court room friend, Mr. O.J. Simpson. Here were some of my choice words for O.J.: stupid, arrogant, idiot…….. Below are some situations, along with a few choice weapons in name calling:
- Work- lazy, micromanager, jerk
- Politics- liberal freak, right-wing nut, Nazi
- Homosexuality- fag, queer, punk
- Racial- I won’t list any, you know what they are
The reason that I did not list the names in the Racial category, is to illustrate the fact that some name calling is more appropriate than others. Before you name call consider these transitions: “micromanager” their management style is to micromanage, “stupid” behavior is stupid, “crack-head” addicted to crack. The bottom line is that we really do not have the right to call people names. I read Proverbs 18:21 in the message version and it simply states; Words kill, words give life; they’re either poison or fruit—you choose.
Share some of the name calling that you have used this week. Are your words giving life? Share your thoughts!













