I thought this brief clip of Larry King’s interview with Jerry Seinfeld was amusing. This clip epitomizes why you should always do your homework and always be prepared. In case you didn’t know Seinfeld was number one, his last episode had 75 million viewers and “He Is Kind of a Big Deal!”
With an interview of this caliber, do you think Larry King should have been more prepared and brought his A-Game or do you say “Poor Larry?” Share your thoughts!
Throughout the course of my career, I have had the opportunity to work alongside and work for a plethora of different people with various leadership styles. One of the things that I have come to realize is that “You Don’t Have to Yell and Act Stupid” to get maximum performance from your employees. I was reminded of this truth, as I was watching the Indianapolis Colts and New England Patriots play this past Sunday in what was dubbed as Super Bowl XLI ½. I enjoy watching Tony Dungee coach, lead and direct his teams. This is a man whom outwardly shares his Faith and what God has done in his life. He also makes it very clear that he leads in a manner that honors God. Oh and did I mention that according to NFL experts; Dungee is one of only a slim number of NFL coaches that doesn’t use profanity. BTW- Dungee led the Colts to the Super Bowl last year and they are a favorite to repeat this year?
The Colts have a couple of star players however; Dungee’s calm, confident and assertive approach maximizes his players/employees performance. I am not saying that there is not a time to elevate the game, to demand more, to increase the intensity….. I am simply saying that “You Don’t Have to Yell and Act Stupid!” I personally feel that when a leader is confident in whom they are; or who they are in Christ, their style will reflect that confidence and their team will follow. I just think when people get all dramatic, yell, act stupid and try to intimidate; they are just insecure and their team’s performance will reflect that insecurity. Don’t get me wrong there is definitely some balance that has to occur; especially in athletics. I have experienced the negative effects of this style, both in secular and religious environments.
Have you worked for or alongside individuals who “Yell and Act Stupid?” Do you tend to lead with, or respond better to that leadership style? Do you agree with the insecurity comment? Share your thoughts!
I would like to get some input from everyone who reads Big Is The New Small; including those of you reading through RSS. Your feedback will be helpful for some upcoming posts on Church Diversity. OK, here is the question: ”In your opinion, what is the percent of racial diversity of those attending your Church?” Particularly; White, African American, Hispanic & Asian. If you could simply post a comment and in your response include the name/location of the church; as well as your guess on the racial make-up. If you feel a particular population is less than 1% you don’t need to include them in your response, or if you have a significant population other than the ones listed, please include them.
It does not matter whether someone from your church has already responded or if you feel as though you don’t have a clue, I am more interested in your perception! I will post the first comment and I want to thank you in advance for your responses!
I don’t know what it is about Target, but they have me really paying attention to the intentionality of their customer service. I enjoy strolling through the store and as I am rolling around I get the opportunity to receive a free customer service seminar. I know the Target staff probably thinks that I am crazy; as I am walking around snapping pictures w/ my phone. Here is my latest photo; Target has these little red phones all around the store. Notice the sign above and next to the phone doesn’t have information but rather asks 3 questions. The questions are:
That sign just purely simple and customer perfect customer service sense. I am going to paraphrase for what I believe target is really saying. “We are not going to waste money and have a bunch of extra employees running around to bother you; however if you need help, no matter the need you can call on us. We are just a red phone call way.” Just think about those three questions that Target asks and imagine Jesus asking those same three questions, with the addition of one response.
Need Assistance?
Unfortunately, more often times than not, our signs look something like this:
Need Assistance? ~~Let me check my schedule!
Can’t lift it? ~~Don’t look at me, I can’t lift it either!
What does the sign look like and what are the questions/responses for your personal life, business or ministry? Share your thoughts!
Let me shoot you some random bullets!
LifeChurch.tv, NW Oklahoma City Campus
Sports:
Questions that make you go hmmmm!
Quotes:
Question?
Have a great weekend!
I have been thinking over the last few years about the significant increases in the number of people and families that are affected by Cancer. The rates of Cancer increase around the world are growing astronomically on a yearly basis. According to the World Cancer Report, the most comprehensive global examination of the disease to date; Cancer rates could further increase by 50% to 15 million new cases in the year 2020. This report also provides clear evidence that healthy lifestyles and public health action by governments and health practitioners could stem this trend, and prevent as many as one third of cancers worldwide. I just know that I am sick and tired of talking to and hearing about mothers, fathers, family members, friends, spouses, children….. facing this horrible disease. It really breaks my heart!
Sorry to be so crass, but the bottom line is that Cancer is Pissing Me Off! How about you? Share your thoughts!
I had one of those “Ah Ha” moments this week in our staff meeting as we were visiting and sharing what we call “God Moments.” As I was communicating a team member’s situation, I made a comment using a word combination that I found to be intriguing “Just Because or Because.” A team member had approached me about their role, whether it was the right fit and the fact that they felt as though they were doing their role in ministry “Just Because;” instead of doing their role “Because” they are called to that specific role. Hmmmmmm, green light! There is some wisdom in being honest with yourself, your job, your friends, your family or your calling and recognize the things that you do “Just Because!” Have we arrived at a place where we accept doing things “Just Because, Just Because” Here are some “Just Because” statements to ponder:
Okay, you get the picture! The bottom line is that these “Just Becauses” are nothing more than a bunch of Big Fat Excuses to not be intellectually honest and begin to do things “Because!” Do you find yourself or others you know doing things “Just Because?” Share your thoughts!
I thought I would share some ways to increase your blog traffic, these are a combination of things that I have read and things that I have done. Here you go:
What are some things that you have done to increase your blog traffic? Share your thoughts!
For those of you who don’t have a blog, how do you come across the blogs that you read?
Craig posted that they would add those that link their blog to Swerve, to the Swerve blogroll. That will increase your traffic; read about here.
I can’t believe it but after knowing one another for over 11 years, 2 children and a marriage before God; “I Left My Wife!” I know that you are probably saying No, What do you mean? Are you serious? I can’t believe it either, but while we were at the Denver airport, I left her. As we were coming down the escalator we noticed that the train was about to leave and I didn’t want to miss it. I decided to take charge and lead the way, in order to get us on the train. It was my understanding that if I just made it into the doors, they wood stop and re-open; just like an elevator. I was wrong and the door closed with my wife standing outside the train looking at me. It reminded me of a soap opera. I received more advice in that two minute ride than I normally receive in a week; such as:
I decided to take the advice of the wise-man! This was one of those situations in which I reacted based on previous experiences…. elevator doors open. The problem is that I didn’t have any previous experience with train doors. BTW I found my wife at baggage claim and she was laughing/smiling and said “I was fine; I was not going to get smashed by a train door!” Hmmmm prayer does work, thanks “Mr. Wise Man!”
In what ways are churches, businesses, marriages, sports teams….. reacting based on previous experiences; when the reality is that the current experiences are totally different?
Share any situations that you have found yourself in similar to this one!
I am in Denver on vacation:
For you to know and for you to do!
Blogs That have recently added BigIsTheNewSmall/Scott Williams to their blogroll: Let me know if I am missing yours and I will add you to the list!
Robin Meadows Chilly Chilton Aaron Havens Think Virtue The Greater Love Blog
Learning to Breathe Rachel Cobb Well Bread Churchsmo
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